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Sometimes it is better to be kind than right.
and please use their services
What am I supposed to do, Lie ?
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I am learning pretty quick I think, in the pub the other day while giving birthday presents out to a relative, I was asked by someone what they thought of a little pocket Camera they had bought for them, as they knew I am into camera's. I won't bother naming the Camera, but I will say it is probably one of the poorest quality Camera's out there, and probably nowhere near as good as a mobile phone! I really wanted to say what a load of c**p, but she was looking at me for approval. Obviously I knew who the Camera was for, and I knew they would never use it, and would simply throw it to the back of the cupboard to never be seen again. So with that in mind I simply said it's ideal for them, as I knew they would not have wasted a lot of money on an unwanted present!
Later on the missus said how relieved she was, as she thought I was going to say what a load of c**p, and upset the woman who was giving the present
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I guess the easiest is to ask if they are pleased with them and then say 'wonderful' when they say 'yes'. That way you've avoided the question whilst emitting positive vibes.
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I am learning pretty quick I think, in the pub the other day while giving birthday presents out to a relative, I was asked by someone what they thought of a little pocket Camera they had bought for them, as they knew I am into camera's. I won't bother naming the Camera, but I will say it is probably one of the poorest quality Camera's out there, and probably nowhere near as good as a mobile phone! I really wanted to say what a load of c**p, but she was looking at me for approval. Obviously I knew who the Camera was for, and I knew they would never use it, and would simply throw it to the back of the cupboard to never be seen again. So with that in mind I simply said it's ideal for them, as I knew they would not have wasted a lot of money on an unwanted present!
Later on the missus said how relieved she was, as she thought I was going to say what a load of c**p, and upset the woman who was giving the present
I don't seem to get an issue with this one - people start by saying 'I'm sure you wouldn't be satisfied with this (P&S) camera, but do you think it will suit me ok?' - I then can answer in the context of their needs without fear!
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When I have bought things I do ask others what do you think, if my mates or friends say it's no good you should have gotten this one, or that one. I will be pleased that they told me the truth, then hopefully a can change it for a better/ more suitable item. That does not happen much now, as I tend to ask friends relatives etc before I purchase an item or service.
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True, and I would still offer advice in the context of their needs. I don't know much about P&S cameras but often recommend Lumix models from the positive experiences of family and friends.