Your before and after images sure are eye openers. I would prob' have taken the 'before' and been, not exactly disapointed but, sorry I didn't manage to shoot what I had seen.
I would then have 'messed around' in Elements before eventually giving up. Can I ask, how long did it take you to come up with the image you've posted ?
All the pic's you've posted so far are well worth viewing, but I must admit I like the landscapes more.
Unfortunatly I did capture what I had seen physically with my eyes
The weather was horrid but I needed a shot and had already passed a few places and taken a few shots, but driving a long the road I saw the trees in the water and thought "ooo might work" and now since really trying to work out this tonemapping in my head I can actually see shots how they would look after some tone mapping. I see bits of detail in the grey clouds and think "that might come out well" etc and I think it really helps with shots like this. I wouldnt have taken it if I hadnt known abou tonemapping. I wouldnt have even been out with my camera, I would have been sat at home
Anyway....waffling a lot, to process that shot it probably took me 10 minutes. I looked through the jpegs to see which exposure looked best, opened the RAW in photoshop, did 4 exposures from the 1 raw (-2 stops, -1 stop, 0 and +1 stop) all saved as tiffs. Opened those tiffs in Photomatix clicked the generate button, let it do its stuff. Clicked on Tonemap and up it came with last times settings (which were the day befores settings) so were almost spot on, small fiddle with the sliders (think it was just black level and colour temperature) and then saved it as a 16bit tiff, opened it in Photoshop, small crop, resized, sharpened added logo and saved for web. So yeah it probably only was 5-10 minutes. I used to spend ages moving each slider on photomatix seeing what they did, but now I almost can predict it in a way so it makes the whole process a lot quicker.
God this is a long reply!!! But yeah the tonemapped image is not what I saw on the day and is not true to some beliefs that a photo should be a document of the scene as was etc, or that it should be got 'right' in-camera, but I do think this was the shot I was shooting for at the time
and before writting this I dont think that had occured to me